2021-05-20 07:18:02 By Bella 【Personal Growth】Life Colors, what the colors in your aura reveal- Emotional Life Color -BLUE (11)
BLUE
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【PERSONAL GROWTH 】LIFE COLORS, WHAT THE COLORS IN YOUR AURA REVEAL-THE QUESTIONNAIRE (1)
Blues are some of the most loving, nurturing, and supportive
personalities of the Life Colors.
They live from their hearts and emotions.
Their purpose for being on the planet is to give love, to teach love, and to
learn they are loved.
Their priorities are love, relationships, and
spirituality.
Blues are traditionally teachers, counselors, and nurses — the loving
nurturers and caretakers on the planet.
Blues are constantly helping others.
They want to make sure everyone feels loved and accepted.
People always
turn to Blues for comfort and counsel because Blues will always be there
for them.
They consistently provide a shoulder for others to cry on.
Blues are the most emotional personalities in the aura spectrum.
They can cry at the drop of a hat — when they are happy, hurt, angry, sad,
or for no apparent reason.
Even watching a sentimental commercial on
television can bring tears.
People with other Life Colors may have
difficulty understanding Blues’ intense emotional personality.
It is their
capacity for such emotional depth, however, that makes Blues so warm,
compassionate, and caring.
They are capable of deeply understanding the
feelings of others.
Seeing another person cry can often cause Blues to cry
in empathy.
(During a group therapy session, if one Blue starts to cry,
every Blue will automatically start to cry.)
Blues’ greatest talents are their ability to give unconditional love and
their intuition.
People love being around Blues who are in power because
the Blues radiate love, acceptance, and forgiveness.
These compassionate
beings will even befriend those whom others find unlovable.
Blues look
for the good in people. They will give everyone many second chances.
No
matter what mistakes people make, Blues will love and forgive them.
This
behavior often earns them the reputation of being doormats.
They are often
accused of being too nice.
People can easily take advantage of the their
unselfish and endlessly giving nature.
One of their hardest lessons is
learning to say no.
They are afraid that if they do say no, other people will
feel unloved and rejected or will not love them in return.
Blues must learn
that saying no to people does not mean Blues do not love them.
Blues are some of the most intuitive personalities in the aura
spectrum.
They know things. There are often no facts or reasons to support what they know; they just feel it to be true.
They can meet someone and
sense if that person is upset or unhappy.
They can feel when something is
about to happen.
They can think about someone they have not seen in a
long time and that person will call a few minutes later.
When Blues have a
question, whether it is regarding relationships (usually their biggest
challenge),
business, health, or other matters, they need only become quiet
and ask themselves the question.
They will hear the answer inside. The
challenge for Blues is learning to trust what they hear inside and not
overanalyze it.
Although all of us have the capability of receiving intuitive
information, Blues seem to operate primarily through their intuition. They
operate so much from their feelings that they often speak in those terms,
using such phrases as “It just feels right,” “I feel that my friend needs
help,” or “I feel something big is about to happen.”
In addition to being helpers, givers, and teachers, Blues are highly
spiritual.
Blues believe there is a God, a Higher Power, a Universal
Intelligence, or All That Is.
They have had experiences as children of
seeing or talking with God.
Their lives are often spiritual quests to learn
more about God and to serve.
They are very loyal to their religious or
spiritual organizations as long as
they feel those organizations teach what
they believe to be the truth.
Otherwise, they go from one church or religion
to another in search of more
spiritual knowledge to explain and validate
what they feel inside.
Living a loving and spiritual life is a strong priority
for them.
When Blues are in power people trust them.
They know Blues
would never do anything to hurt anyone and that their intentions are
always loving and sincere.
Because of their loving integrity and dedication
to high moral standards,
Blues can do something only when they believe in
it.
Then they are some of the world’s greatest promoters.
If they discover
something they enjoy or that has helped them, whether it is a movie, a
book, a restaurant, or a religion,
they want to share their discovery with all
their friends.
The loving Blues usually have an abundance of friends. Their loved
ones are a high priority in their lives.
They will give up their valuable time
and energy to help friends in need.
These sensitive, caring individuals are
also the perfect hosts.
They will consistently cater to their guests’ needs,
offering food, drink, or whatever else is needed for comfort.
During
conversations, Blues will also make sure everyone feels included.
They
can become overly concerned, at times, with everyone else’s well being.
They can become so caught up in their friends’ dramas that they frequently
end up
feeling more distressed and emotionally burdened than their friends
feel.
A challenge for Blues is to not worry about everyone else’s problems.
They are the ultimate rescuers on the planet.
(Yellows also tend to help
and rescue people, but they usually focus on using their sense of humor to
cheer them up.)
Blues are good givers, but not good receivers.
They even have
trouble receiving compliments.
Because they do not want to bother or
inconvenience anyone, they feel guilty asking for or receiving help.
They
also have trouble delegating authority.
Consequently, they become
incredibly overworked and overwhelmed with responsibilities and with
volunteering all their time. Blues are the ultimate doers — they feel people
love them because they buy them gifts or work hard for them,
rather than
because they are themselves lovable people.
One of Blues’ greatest lessons
is to learn they are loved just the way they are, not for what they do.
Blues want deeply to be loved, though they often doubt they are
loved.
They frequently doubt their self-worth.
They can hear a hundred
times that they are beautiful and loved, and yet if one negative thing is
said,
it is the negative they will remember.
Blues even test people
(especially their mates) to see if they really love them.
“If he really loved
me, he would run after me if I left him.”
“He would remember my birthday
since I did so many wonderful things for him on his birthday.”
“He would
worry about me if I appeared to be unhappy.”
Blues want to be loved, but don’t believe they should have to ask for
it.
Because Blues are the loving and intuitive rescuers,
they want to be
loved and rescued when they are depressed, overworked, or overwhelmed.
Because Blues know when someone else is upset and needs love, they
expect that others know when they are upset.
However, not all the other
Life Colors are as intuitive as are the Blues.
Nor do they all feel a need to
rescue people.
Although Blues retreat into the bedroom and wait for
someone to comfort and rescue them,
others do not understand and can
even resent being manipulated by Blues’ guilt-inducing behavior.
It is
when Blues don’t receive the love they want, or when they don’t recognize
or accept the love given to them,
that they can become overly dramatic and
consumed with self-pity.
Then they become victims and martyrs.
Out of
power, they use guilt to manipulate others, hoping that if people start
feeling guilty enough,
they will give Blues more love and attention. Blues
just want to feel loved and appreciated.
Blues can become so emotional and depressed that they sometimes contemplate suicide,
though they will not usually go through with it for
fear of hurting the people they love.
They then imagine being at their own
funerals to see how many people would attend.
(just another test to see if
they are loved).
Many out-of-power Blues will hit bottom before they will
accept help from others.
They will become overworked, overwhelmed, ill,
or devastated over relationship problems.
Usually hitting bottom is the
only time Blues will give themselves permission
to stop rescuing everyone
else and take care of their own needs for awhile.
Blues also hold onto the past and onto guilt more than the other
colors do.
Far into their adult lives, they continue to feel guilty about
things they did as children.
(It is very common for Blues to have issues
with their mothers.
Yellows typically have issues with their fathers.)
They
usually blame themselves when things go wrong.
They are habitually
apologizing for their behavior.
“I’m Sorry” could be the Blue’s theme
song.
If you step on a Blue’s foot, the Blue will apologize for being in the
way.
Blues also tend to take things personally.
It’s difficult for them to be
around angry people.
They see others’ anger as a personal rejection.
To become centered again, Blues must learn to love themselves,
which is their greatest challenge and biggest life lesson.
But they are
typically afraid that if they love themselves, no one else will.
Their
greatest fear is being alone, abandoned and unloved.
To help them love
themselves, Blues need to understand that all their actions are always
based on one of two motives:
to give love or to be loved.
If they can
realize that both are benevolent and altruistic motives,
then they can begin
to be more gentle and understanding with themselves.
They also need to
realize they chose to serve and to give to others.
No one has forced them.
Blues achieve satisfaction and fulfillment from loving and giving to others.
To regain their power, they also need to calm down and reconnect
with their inner knowing.
They need to trust that they are loved.
If they
become deeply depressed, their quickest cure is to do something nice for
someone else.
As soon as they focus on helping someone else, they forget
about their own problems and become less depressed.
When Blues regain
their balance, they return to their natural loving and generous nature.
(Helping others should be only a temporary solution,
however, because
Blues can become overly involved in the lives of others to avoid facing
their own fears and challenges.)
Problem Solving
Prayer and meditation are the most common tools Blues use to solve
challenges.
When Blues are centered, they pray or ask their inner selves
for answers.
They must learn to listen and trust the answers they receive,
however.
Trusting is their biggest challenge.
When Blues have questions,
whether about relationships, business, or even what to eat,
they only need
to become quiet and centered, ask themselves the questions, and hear the
solution inside.
When Blues are out of power, their method of solving problems
involves sitting in their homes and crying to be rescued.
They often pray
for help, but are not always listening inside when the answers come.
Blues’ quiet intuition, trust, and knowing will give them the answers they
need and solve their challenges every time.
Money
People and relationships are more important to Blues than money,
so
they often struggle financially, choosing low-paying, service-oriented jobs.
Because money is not a priority, Blues are usually fearful of not having
enough,
especially when they have families to support.
In addition, it is
easier for them to complain, suffer,
and dramatize their hard work and
sacrifices than it is for them to ask for a raise.
Because Blues are very good givers but not very good receivers,
one
challenge for them is learning to receive money.
They usually feel that
their services should come from the heart,
not from a desire for money.
They commonly feel that being spiritual means being opposed to having material wealth.
Even though Blues are happy being givers, they need to
learn how to receive.
By never learning to receive, they are cheating others
out of the joy of giving and are,
to a certain extent, looking down on them.
They are, in a sense, saying, “I am wonderful and prosperous enough to
give to you.
You, however, are not prosperous or powerful enough to give
to me.”
The most loving and empowering gesture a Blue can make is to
allow others to feel prosperous,
generous, and capable of giving. This
empowers others to feel good about their capabilities.
Blues can also feel guilty having more than their friends or families
have.
They subconsciously feel they must suffer with everyone else not
being prosperous or in harmonious, satisfying relationships.
If friends are
suffering financially,
Blues will either empathize and complain about their
similar financial situations or give them money to help them out.
Blues
will also try to help everyone first before they will help themselves.
They
feel that sacrificing their needs and putting others first shows how loving
they are.
They often fear being unloved and alone or of being seen as
selfish if they succeed.
As long as Blues feel they must help everyone else first,they are
destined to suffer.
Their bravest and most loving action is to first live their
own dreams of abundance,
love, health, and happiness, which will inspire
others to live their dreams, too.
(What motivates Blues is discovering that
their actions will help others.)
Blues also need to learn that love,
happiness, prosperity, and spirituality can all be connected.
Success
Blues define their success by how many people love them and by
how many people they have been able to help.
The quantity and quality of
friends, the length and quality of their marriages,
the depth of their
compassion and loyalty to those they love,
and their dedication to their
spirituality are what they consider to be most important.
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The complete information of the book is as below:
Life color: what the colors in your aura reveal.
First printing of the revised edition, September 2000
(It's already 20years ago!!!)
ISBN-10: 0984937501
The Authors official website:
www.AuraColors.com
www.LoveColors.com
Other books by Pamala Oslie
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